In loving memory

A Daughter’s Tribute to Her Beloved Mother

Mum.

What a powerful, beautiful word. It holds my entire world within it: love, comfort, safety, strength, and grace.

Today, as I'm trying to find the words to honour you, I realize there will never be enough to truly express what you mean to me.

You were my first home, my first teacher, and my forever friend. You shaped me with your gentle hands and steady heart. You taught me how to be strong but soft, bold but kind, and fearless in the face of life’s uncertainties. Your love gave me roots, and your faith gave me wings.

I remember how you used to advise me about life's upheavals. You always knew what I needed, even before I did.

One of my favorite memories of you is getting to know you more when you visited Toronto when I gave birth. Seeing you be a grandmother in those 2 visits, taught me how to be a mother. There are things I learned from your stay that I carry with me to this day.

I remember how you easily made friends with the neighbours and shop owners, while pushing the kids' strollers for a relaxed walk to the park. In your matching African print shorts and shirt, you were a distant cry from the ex-Principal of ISS and owner of businesses. You were just my mum.

Your recipes, your love for science, your quick witted nature, your eyes when you look at things with disapproval, your wholesome laugh when you find something funny, your quiet presence as you just lived, your fierce determination and courage, your work ethic, your sense of purpose, your loyalty to family. Oh mum, you feature in my every existence.

You gave so much of yourself to everyone around you. You always found time for family, even when you were tired. You somehow had the strength to carry us all, and you did it with grace and without complaint.

You taught me what it means to be a woman - to stand firm in my values, to care deeply, to work hard, and to lead with kindness. I watched you face challenges with dignity and determination, especially when daddy passed. I know you missed him dearly.

Even in your quiet moments, you were teaching me: how to listen, how to forgive, how to find beauty in simple things. I still hear your voice in my head. The somehow soft but firm voice, that showed intelligence, strength, courage and beauty. And I still find myself trying to live up to the woman you were, even now.

Thank you, Mum. For every sacrifice you made, for every lesson you taught me, and for every time you stood by me when I didn’t even know I needed support. I carry you with me, in my choices, in my dreams, and in how I show up for others.

You were truly the best part of my life. And I will spend the rest of my life honouring yours.

I love you always.

Onem Sandra Osuoka, PMP - Daughter

Mrs. Lovinah Abei Carson Akiagba (fondly called “LAC” by many admirers) was one of the five pioneer teachers at the International Secondary School of the Rivers State University, Nkpolu-Oroworukwo, Port Harcourt, where she began her journey as a dedicated Biology teacher. Through consistent excellence and leadership, she rose to become the school’s Vice Principal in 1990, gaining admiration for her firm yet thoughtful disciplinary style and exemplary supervisory skills. In 1998, she made history as the first female and 4th overall Principal, steering the school through a challenging infrastructural period and recording numerous academic and developmental successes during her tenure until 2008. Her remarkable career at the school left a lasting legacy that continues to inspire generations.

Lady Mercy Bennett Ezekiel-Hart (PhD), Principal- on behalf of teachers and students of International Secondary School

Tribute to my Mother of Valour

There are moments in life that redefine us, that carve new paths in our hearts whether we’re ready or not. Losing my mother was one of those moments. It wasn’t just the passing of a person, it was the quiet departure of a light that had always guided me, even when I didn’t realize it. My mother was not just the heart of our family, she was the very soul of it. Her love, her strength, and her wisdom left a mark that time will never erase.

She was a woman of quiet resilience. Not the kind that seeks attention or recognition, but the kind that gets up every day and does what needs to be done, with love and grace. My mother lived her life for others — not out of obligation, but out of a deep well of compassion. She gave selflessly, tirelessly, and with a kind of joy that made even the most mundane tasks feel meaningful.

In her presence, you felt seen. You felt safe. She had an uncanny ability to understand people, to read between the lines, to offer exactly what was needed without having to be asked. Whether it was a warm meal, a piece of advice, a soft hand on your back when you were breaking, she was there.

She wasn’t perfect, but she was genuine. She had her battles, her scars, her weary days, but she never let them make her bitter. She never stopped believing in the goodness of people, in the power of kindness, or in the importance of family. And that is something I will carry with me forever.

Grief is a strange companion. Some days it’s loud and overwhelming, other days it’s quiet and dull. But it always reminds me of how deeply I loved her, how deeply she was loved by so many. In the silence, I hear her voice. In the stillness, I feel her presence. In my own choices, my own words, my own way of navigating the world — I see her influence.

Her legacy isn’t one of grand achievements or worldly recognition. It’s in the lives she touched. It’s in the people she nurtured. It’s in me. And that legacy is more powerful than anything else I can imagine.

So, this is not a goodbye. This is a thank you. Thank you, Mom, for every sacrifice, every hug, every moment. Thank you for your unwavering love. Thank you for shaping me into who I am. You live on in me — in every kind word I speak, in every act of compassion, in every lesson I pass on.

Dr. Amokiese Beneovie Juliet Godwin - Daughter

A Tribute to My Mother

Today, I honour the life of an incredible woman, Mrs. LAC Akiagba whose strength, love, and unwavering devotion continue to inspire me every day.

You were more than just a mother. A guiding light, a pillar of strength, and the heart of our home. As a principal, you were a firm but kind leader, respected by students and teachers alike. Your passion for education wasn’t just a job but was a calling. You poured yourself into shaping young minds, always striving to make a difference, and you did so with grace, dignity, and compassion.

At home, you were the very best of mothers. You sacrificed so much for us by always putting our needs first, making sure we had what we needed. You nurtured us with love, care, and wisdom, and gave us a safe, warm home where we always felt supported. You taught us values that we carry to this day: integrity, kindness, hard work, and humility.

To my late father, you were a devoted and loving wife, a true partner through every season of life. The bond shared by both of you is still an example of unity and strength.

Your legacy lives on not only in our hearts, but in the countless lives you touched through your work and love. I miss you more than words can express, but I’m endlessly grateful for the time we had and the person you helped me become.

Rest well, Mumsy. Your memory is a blessing, and your love will never fade.

Forever in our hearts.

Engr. Adide Rex Akiagba - Son

My Mama

Mummy or Mama like she was famously called by me and my friends was a God fearing woman that touched the lives of anybody she came across. She took everybody in, like her own and always showed love to everybody in need that she came across. She lived a simple life and always put family first. She was an educationalist and made sure all her children had the highest form of education. She was a beacon in my life and in the family, both extended and immediate.

I will miss her dearly. She helped shape my life and taught me how to handle business. Today I am able to stand on my own because of what she instilled in me. I love and cherish my mother and will miss her greatly.

Thank U Mama for all U did for me. May your soul rest in peace in Jesus name amen

Ebomume Kenneth Akiagba (Ebase) - Son

Eulogy for My Grandmom

Good day everyone. My name is Sovereigna Godwin and I have the honor of being the granddaughter of an extraordinary woman - my grandma, Mrs Lovinah Akiagba, whom we lovingly called MAMA.

It’s difficult to put Into words just how much she meant to me, but I’ll try to speak from the heart.

Mama was the very definition of warmth and strength. A woman who carried herself with quiet dignity, compassion, and unwavering resilience. She was a light in our lives—a guiding presence, steady and strong, her home was always a happy safe space. Even as a young child she made me feel seen and valued .

As a child, she lit a flame in me that still burns today: the love of learning. I remember her reading to me not just words from pages, but pieces of her heart. She took the time to invite a shy, quiet little girl into her world, and in doing so, she changed my life forever.

I remember going with her to the market, holding her hand and watching how she greeted everyone with grace and confidence. I remember being by her side in the kitchen, watching her work her magic with food, feeling important just because she let me be there. And I remember her talking to me as if I truly understood - never speaking down to me, always lifting me up.

Those moments seemed small at the time, but they meant everything. They taught me about love, patience, strength, and pride in who we are and where we come from.

But Mama didn’t just impact me -her life inspired so many others. She was a pillar in her community, a woman people admired for her wisdom, her kindness, and her unshakeable spirit.

I’m proud-so deeply proud-to be her granddaughter. And though I miss her terribly, I know that she lives on in every memory we shared and lessons I learnt from her.

Thank you, Mama, for seeing me, for guiding me, and for loving me. May your beautiful soul rest in peace. You will always be with me.

Sovereigna Daasizibe Godwin - Granddaughter

MAMA

You were more than just a grandmother; you were a pillar of strength, a beacon of love, and a shining example of faith. Your passing leaves a void in our lives, but your legacy and memories will continue to inspire and nourish us.

We cherish the memories of holidays spent at your house, filled with laughter, warmth, and the aroma of your delicious cooking. Your Sunday tradition of fried rice and chicken was a staple we all looked forward to, and it still brings smiles to our faces.

Your passion for education was contagious, and you instilled in us the importance of learning and personal growth. Your encouragement and support helped shape us into the individuals we are today.

Your devotion to God and your commitment to Salvation Ministries were a testament to your strong faith and values. You lived a life of service, kindness, and compassion, inspiring us to follow in your footsteps.

As we celebrate your life and legacy, we take comfort in the knowledge that you’re now at peace, reunited with loved ones who went before you. Your love, wisdom, and spirit will continue to guide us, and we’ll carry you in our hearts forever.

Rest in peace, dear Mama. Your impact in our lives will never be forgotten.

Reignald E. Godwin - Grandson

Tribute to My Grandmother

Today, I celebrate the life of a woman whose presence was a gift to everyone who knew her — My Grandmother!

Her life was a clear example of dedication — to her family, to her community, and to God. She worked hard, lived simply, and carried herself with dignity and grace.

Grandma taught us the value of respect, hard work, and contentment. She raised children and grandchildren with firm hands and soft hearts, always reminding us of who we are and where we come from. Her faith was strong and unwavering, and her commitment to doing what was right never wavered.

Even as age came with its challenges, she remained prayerful, wise, and focused. Her presence brought order. Her absence will surely be felt.

We will miss her deeply, but we thank God for the time we had with her. May her soul rest in perfect peace.

Grandma was more than a matriarch; she was the soul of our family. Her strength was quiet but unwavering, her love constant and unconditional. She carried wisdom in her words, warmth in her embrace, and grace in every step she took. Her home was always a place of comfort — where stories were shared, meals were made with love, and no one ever left without a smile.

Shahyn Izibeboni Godwin - Granddaughter

TRIBUTE TO A REMARKABLE GRANDMA

Good day, everyone.

My name is Kings Godwin, I’m the grandson of Lovinah Akiagba.

Today, we gather not in sorrow, but in remembrance of a truly remarkable woman. She was more than just a mother or a grandmother; she was our rock and our safe haven, and her home was a happy place for us all. Her love was a constant, a beacon that guided us through thick and thin. She taught us the value of hard work, the importance of family, and the power of faith.

Mama, your legacy of love and strength will live on in each of us.

May your soul rest in peace.

We will miss you always.

Kings Etimeya Godwin - Grandson

A TRIBUTE TO MY AUNT

Though I did not know my Aunt Lovinah closely, I recognize and honor the incredible legacy she leaves behind. As a dedicated Biology and Chemistry Professor; and a respected member of her community, her influence reached far and wide — through the students she mentored, the colleagues she inspired, and the lives she touched with her passion for education.

Beyond her professional accomplishments, Aunt Lovinah was a devoted wife, a loving mother, and a cherished family member. She poured her heart not only into her work but into her home, embodying strength, care, and quiet grace in all that she did.

While our personal connection was limited, I am proud to call her family and to witness the profound respect she earned through a life of service, knowledge, and love.

May her memory live on in every life she impacted — and may she rest in peace.

Respectfully written by Asuefa Yvonne Francois, daughter of Fred Francis Ozaka

She made the Biology subject, easy to understand and taught us stuff I still remember to this day. You touched so many lives with your stern yet affectionate way of tutoring and instilling discipline. Rest on Ma and thank you, you will always be fondly remembered.

Francisca Egberike - Former Student: ISS 96' set

A TRIBUTE FROM YOUR GRANDSON

Even though Grandma lived far away, I always knew she was close not in distance, but in prayer, in spirit, and in love.

She wasn’t the kind of grandma I saw every day, but she never felt like a stranger. Her voice, her prayers, her check-ins, they all made me feel seen, remembered, and covered.

Even across oceans, I knew she was rooting for me. I still remember mum telling us stories of when we were little and she took very good care of us. And that love still showed even before her death.

Grandma’s faith was unshakable. She always reminded me to put God first, to stay focused, and to trust that everything would work out. Her words still echo in my heart and I find myself thinking of them when I need direction.

She may not have been there physically, but somehow, she always felt near, like a quiet strength walking with me. I’m grateful for the way she loved me, the way she prayed for me, and the way she believed in the man I could become.

I hope I make her proud. Thank you, Grandma, for loving me from a distance, it reached me.

I carry your faith and your legacy with me always.

Egileoniso Aza Osuoka - Grandson

TRIBUTE TO A WONDERFUL GRANDMA

Grandma may have lived in another country, but she was never far from my heart.

Even though we didn’t spend a lot of time together in person, her presence was always felt, in her prayers, in her messages, and in the quiet way she reminded me I was loved. Her love didn’t need to be loud to be real.

She had this calm, reassuring way of speaking. Hearing her voice on the phone, always reminded of how loved I was.

Grandma’s faith made her powerful in a quiet way. She didn’t just talk about prayer, she lived it. I knew, without a doubt, that she had me covered in her conversations with God. That kind of love stays with you, even when the person is gone.

She taught me that love can travel far. That even from another country, a grandma’s prayers can be stronger than distance. And that being family isn’t about how often you see each other, but how deeply you’re connected.

I miss her gentle strength.
But I’m thankful for the part of her that lives on in me.

Thank you, Grandma, for praying me through life.
Your love was never far.
And it never will be.

Ovieni Anna Osuoka - Granddaughter

Mrs Akiagba’s passing is truly the end of an era. She was Vice-Principal and then Principal for my secondary school career and her standards were high. She worked hard and she expected us to do the same, there were no half measures with her, only excellence. Her legacy lives on in all her children, one of whom is my friend (Onem) and in her students. Thank you for the impact you had on my life.

Dr. Edem Onofeghara

A TRIBUTE TO A WONDERFUL MOTHER-IN-LAW

With a heart full of gratitude and love, I celebrate the life of an incredible woman - my dear mother-in-law. She was more than just a mother; she was a pillar of strength, kindness, and wisdom. Her love knew no bounds, and her presence brought warmth and joy to all who knew her.

She embraced me like her own. Her legacy of love, generosity, and faith will forever live on in our hearts. Though she is no longer with us in person, her spirit remains, shining brightly in the lives she touched.

Rest in peace, Mama. You will always be loved and remembered.

Mrs. Blessing Adide Akiagba - Daughter-in-law

A TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED AUNTY

My beloved Aunty, I am so grateful for your love, support and guidance. It is with a heavy heart I say goodbye. Your passing has left a void that can never be replaced.

I know you’re up in heaven , watching over us all you left behind .

Continue to rest on my biggest cheerleader and role model .

Your niece,

Mrs. Oyikien David Jeremiah

A TRIBUTE TO MY GRANDMA

Farewell, Grandma. You lived a life well-shared and filled with love. May you rest in peace, surrounded by the beauty of the memories we created.

Your unwavering love and unyielding grace were a tapestry that held us close. In the coldest times, your presence was the blessing that wrapped us in warmth.

ThankGod Abere Ngeri Ogan (Your foster grandson)

A TRIBUTE TO MY MUMMY

She was a mother to me, I lived with her throughout my study at the college of Education, Port -Harcourt, Rivers State. She cared for me as her biological son, my heart aches and eyes flow with tears as I face this reality, that you are no more. I am sure that you are resting in the bosom of the Lord. Mummy that cannot compare with others. You showed compassion to me throughout my stay with you. I don’t believe that you are gone. Now death has succeeded in keeping us apart. Fare well mummy, till we meet again on the resurrection morning. May your soul rest in peace.

Power

Tribute to a great AUNTIE

On Monday morning the 3rd of March 2025, I got a shocking news from my sister, Dr. Amokiese (quote) my dear mother has gone to be with the Lord!!! Immediately my whole body system changed. The whole memories of how we lived together while growing up was activated with tears flowing, One thing I know is that, mummy was among those who rendered great help for me to be alive while growing up when I lost my mother.

Of course mummy’s house was a home for all. She took me and gave all that a mother should give to her child, she was always there instructing me on how to behave myself, directing me on how I should go with the affairs of life, MUMMY you were a mother to me, a sister, a friend and a discipler.

In Hebrews 9:27 the Bible says…. And as it is appointed unto men once to die but after this (which is death) the judgment - with this I have no reason of questioning your CREATOR. It is for the living to apply our hearts to wisdom, to make the right preparation of making the right choice while we are alive, because the appointed time is in God’s hands. Nobody knows… the date, time, hour, place, when, where and how. I am not a person of too many words, worse in a time like this, this is one of those times where words really can’t express feelings. MUMMY your death is very painful, but precious in God’s sight is the death of a SAINT

WHICH YOU 💕 ARE!!!! REST ON

Mrs. Ovie Ahaneku

Tribute to my Mom

The last time I visited and I hugged you good bye, I didn't know that it would be the last time I'd see you. You came out of the gate as I got into the car, stood and waved at me until I was out of sight. I said, "Don't worry mom, Onem and I would be back to see you again." I have relived that moment over and over again. Our hope in Christ is that indeed, we shall all meet again. This time, to part no more. Information about your passing came as a confusion and a rude shock. I am still trying to fathom it all. I have been numb and disorientated about it all. When Dad passed, we mourned, but were comforted by the fact that you were still with us. But now, everything seems bleak and uncertain. Mom, you were the bond and unifying factor for all of us. In our large house, you were there for all of us- both children and relatives alike; showing kindness, discipline, empathy and resilience. I look back and I wonder at your patience and commitment to us all. What a beacon of hope, focus and strength you were!! Even now, as you have changed address to Heaven, it still doesn't feel like you have passed. As always, I still remember your memes when you warn, advise, reprimand in your characteristic gentle voice. Amidst my tears, I still smile and chuckle at some of them. These things never fade. They'll forever remain with warmth in our hearts. You were a rare gem indeed Mom, and you'll forevermore remain with fondness in all our hearts. Love you Mom. Always!

Miya Brilliana Stephen-Kwelle - Daughter

On behalf of the executive and entire members of the International Secondary School Old Students Association (ISSOSA) Class of 2001, I write to extend our deepest condolences on the loss of your mother, Mrs. Lovinah Abei Akiagba. We are deeply saddened by the tragic event and offer our heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. Mrs. Lovinah Abei Akiagba was a role model to us, she was part of our adolescent years as a teacher, principal and mother figure to us. We remember her passion for education which led to her commitment and dedication to the school (International Secondary School, Rivers State University). In this difficult time, we want you to know that you are not alone. We are here to support you in any way we can. Please accept our sincere condolences and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Executive and members of ISS 2001 set

May her soul find perfect rest with the Lord. We will miss her so much. The good Lord comfort her children and family in this trying time.

Lydia Austin-Afa (Former Student/Church Member

She was exceptional and devoted to her students... She left an indelible mark in our lives...Rest in Abba's bosom.

Abbiba Emina - Former Student

Ma'am, my biology teacher, during my years in secondary school. You left an indelible mark on my life with your wealth of knowledge. You commanded respect, nurtured growth, and inspired excellence. Thank you for the lessons, leadership and love you poured into your work, and I am forever grateful. Rest in peace.View Forms

Kadilo Frank-Taol - Former Student

She was a very good woman, my her gentle soul rest in peace

Maxwell Ibelegbu - Former Student 2000 set

You have paid the debt everyone owes, I know you are in a better place and one day we will unite again. Your love and affection as a teacher and most of all a mother to me will never be forgotten. I knew there was one place on earth I could run to without judgment was your kitchen. Mummy we love you but God loves you more. Keep resting in His bosom.ew Forms

Dienye Pepple - Former Student/Family Member

You impacted our lives in a good way all through my stay in ISS from when you were the vice principal till you became the principal. May the Lord grant your soul eternal rest

Tariere Ogidi (nee Tawari) - Former Student

Tribute to Aunty Lovinah

Today, I find it hard to put into words the deep sense of loss I feel as we say goodbye to Aunty Lovinah. She was more than just an aunt or a family member; she was a true mother to me. When I look back on my life, one thing stands out clearly: without Mummy’s support, my siblings and I would never have had the opportunity to attend International Secondary School. She opened that door for us — believing in our dreams, making sacrifices, and ensuring that we had a strong foundation to build our futures on. I will forever be grateful for that gift. Mummy’s heart was incredibly large — large enough to take in so many of us who were not her biological children, yet who never once felt like outsiders. In her presence, you could feel the warmth of genuine love. She treated me like her very own son, with kindness, patience, and unwavering support. I never once felt second best or different; her home was my home, her arms were always open. What a sweet soul, genuine, kind, but firm. Your love, encouragement, guidance and generosity have left an imprint on my life that time can never erase. Mummy wasn’t just part of my story — she helped write it, shaping who I am with her kindness and her steadfast belief in me. She never considered any child slow or useless, she nurtured in patience and hope that each was gifted differently. I will miss you deeply mummy. Her laughter, her wisdom, her quiet strength — all the little ways she made life richer for those around her. Even though she has gone to be with the Lord, her spirit, her lessons, and her love will live on in all of us she touched. Rest well, dearest Mummy. Thank you for loving us the way you did. I will carry your memory with me always. With love and endless gratitude, 


Peter Ozaka - Nephew

Mrs. Akiagba was the vice principal during my time at International Secondary School. She also substituted for the biology teacher at times when he was not available. What I remember about Mrs. Akiagba is that at every interaction we had, she showed genuine care, always making time to listen, to guide, and to encourage when I needed it most. Although she came off as very strict, she led with compassion and cautioned us with love and care. I got to know her even more, as her daughter, Onem is my very close friend. Mrs. Akiagba didn't just run the school — she cared for every single one of us as if we were her own. Though she is no longer with us, the lessons she taught and the love she shared will stay with me forever. I am so grateful to have known her, and her legacy will always live on in the lives of everyone she touched. She was truly special, and she will be missed….. Ijeoma Ofodile aka Pamela Ihekwoaba

Ijeoma Pamela Ofodile nee Ihekwoaba - Former Student

We will miss her so much. Ma, was a rare gem, kind and deeply committed to our growth. May her soul rest in peace. Amen

Rosemary Egberike - Former Student

Dear Adide and the Akiagba Family,

We, the members of the RSU International Secondary School Class of 2000, write to you with heavy hearts as we mourn the passing of your beloved mother, Mrs Akiagba. Her loss is deeply felt by all who knew her, and we share in your sorrow during this difficult time.

Mrs Akiagba was not only a dedicated principal but a guiding light and nurturing presence to generations of students. To us, she was more than a principal, she embodied the warmth and care of a mother, always offering wisdom with grace and kindness. Her unwavering commitment to fostering not just academic excellence, but empathy and character has left indelible marks on our lives. Even years later, we carry memories of her encouraging words, her calming strength, and the love she extended to every student as though we were her own.

Adide, please know that we as a class stand with you in spirit. We hope you find solace in the countless lives she touched and the legacy of compassion she built.

May cherished memories of her boundless love and the knowledge that her light continues to shine through all she nurtured bring you comfort.

You remain in our thoughts and prayers.

With heartfelt sympathy,
The RSU International Secondary School Class of 2000